I'm just reading between the lines here, but it sounds to me like the parents are wishing you were out on your own.
The way they are looking at it is if you are a grown man still living at home and can afford a new payment for something they don't think you need, then you should be using that money to support yourself instead.
I'm not sure how old you are but if you are over 25yr old then you should have been out on your own years ago. I got nine kids and the four oldest were all out on ther own or married by the time they were 20.
I suspect the parents have been a little lax with you on not kicking you out of the nest and now they are regretting it.
Just calling it like I see it, sorry dude.
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