I'm not sure where you are located, but search around on the internet for sealing companies.
You definitively don't want to put sand down before sealing the cracks since the sealer does not bond to sand. Just make sure the crack is clean before sealing it, then I add a black beauty, a black sand on top of it to prevent tracking with car tires.
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