After nearly 3 years of squeezing self-employment into and around a full-time position elsewhere I've recently found that my wife's been racking up the credit cards. Not something I want to continue supporting especially when she's not remotely interested in contributing to our household income. If we didn't have a 2 year old child together I'd ship her out. Not going to be an easy road ahead. I've contacted a couple of the company's to suggest they freeze the card since it's "lost" at this time. Sorta tough when you don't have all the necessary account details available. On the flip-side I'm thinking of just letting her tank her own credit & only focus on managing the family bills like the electric bill etc. Just burns me up to see $45 lunches & Toys R Us junk at 25% interest while I'm busting my butt & grabbing Wendy's for $3. It doesn't help that her friends are lazy home-breakers. Last week was a critical turning point where I asked her to run a delivery which was less than 12 miles away & she got all bent out of shape suggesting that it would be the last one 'cause it's such an inconvenience. I in turn screamed in her face that she doesn't seem to have a problem with driving over 100 miles one-way when shopping's involved. Really pissed me off!