I can't keep losing sleep...I have too much to take care of. So maybe some advice from ya'll would help. David has been in buisness 7 years, and although at the beginning I had no idea how to manage anything like this...he basically threw me into the job anyway. I have an Associates degree in ART, no business or accounting. I have 2 1/2 years experience in debt collections, but I LOATHED that job. And I used to do my own taxes and I am pretty good at budgeting a household. So, he's like, "You're smart, you'll figure it out." Well, he's been on my back ever since. Nothing I do is "right" to him. The first 2 years worth of paperwork was all done by hand. And when we got the Quicken program, I'm the one who waded through it and learned it. We got the Groundkeeper Pro...and once again, I learned it. In 2001 he tried to hire my job out to an accountant, but that only lasted a few weeks because she "wasn't doing it right" and I had to fix everything. In 2002 he wanted a partner, so he got one, and ya'll heard that story in another thread. I had to fix that one, too. (What I mean by fix is get all the info in the computer straight, the billing straight, the schedual, the budget, etc. This usually takes about a month or so.) And this past summer, he got his father involved and hired a manager, who didn't do squat...and I've had to fix everything. Meanwhile, while I am tring to budget and pay obligations, David's yelling at me that I don't pay the bills right, and he needs all the money, and he ignores me when I tell him that he dosn't have the budget for more payroll, equipment, etc. So the past 2 weeks he's been "racing" me to the P.O. Box to collect money comming in so that he can spend it how he sees fit. Last week I was having an automatic draw set up through the bank for the exmark, and he walked into the bank asked how much was in the account and withdrew it the day the draw was supposed to go through. So, now that cost in fees AND they are going to want thier payment by Western Union ASAP. But, see I do it all wrong! How dare I try to make a payment on a major peice of equipment. I obviously have no idea that what he needs and has to go through! (So he keeps reminding me!) I am so SICK of having to be the fall guy...the one responsible for everything, but I am not allowed to have control over the incoming revenue. David gets a call from a creditor and says it's my fault I didn't pay it, but won't let me have the money TO do the paying. I know a little of this is his Bi-Polar whatever...but a big chunk is his attitude. Please, someone tell me what you think I should do. I've quit, I've argued, I've shown him reports, I've given him a layout of his budget, I've counceled and told him my ideas, I've got a REALLY good idea of his goals and have tring to show him how over time to reach them. I've asked him how he wants me to pay the bills, I've by-passed him in order to get it done. I am tapped out of ideas! Now, one thing that I was hoping would happen is that I DO take a monthly draw for the house, and I budget that wisely and make sure that our bills are paid and the kids have their needs. Over time I was hoping that he could see that I do this well without his involvment and that it would prove my abilities to him. But, this hasn't came to be yet, simply because he thinks that I am taking more than my share. He is confusing household expense and pay with payments on his equipment. It's like he thinks my household draw covers the exmark, too. And of course, If a large sum comes in that is NOT my draw money and is supposed to go into the buisness, he wants to go out on the town and I tell him that I don't have the money for that (Out of my money) and he gets mad that he works too hard not to have any fun with his kids--because you can't have fun for free, ya' know. Geesh! Sorry this rant is so long. Please help!