I have a customer who wanted some work done and HE (husband) tells me how he wants things done. So I go to the prop and start measuring and the SHE (wife) comes out and asks what I'm doing. I tell her that her husband called and wanted some work done a certain way. She said that she does not want it done the same way the husband wants it done and said don't be surprised if things "change". I told her that I did not want to be in the middle and she and her husband need to figure out what they want. That was 10 days ago. 2 days after I measured the husband called and asked if I had the estimate done yet. I asked him what exactly he wanted done and he told me the same thing he said the 1st time I talked to him so I figured him and the mrs. worked things out. I asked him if it would be alright if I did the work today (I'm way behind) and he said it would be fine. I show up there this morning (25 miles one way)with 1 helper and unloaded the skidsteer to start work. I didn't get 50 feet and the wife came out in her robe and chewed me out. She said she didn't want the job done the way her husband did and then continued to chew my azz. Just so happen that the husband was not home at the time so I told my helper I didn't need this f-ing s*it and we loaded up and left. I don't think I have ever been talked to in such a degrading manor as the wife did to me this morning. What should I do? Keep in mind that I make about $3500+/year on this customer and would rather not lose the account. I have never had a problem with this cutomer b4 (2 years). Husband pays all bills / Wife does not work.